Romans 12:17–21: Revenge, Coals of Fire, Peace
Romans 12:17–21 does not tell the wounded to pretend the wrong did not happen. It tells them to hand the right to repay over to God and to answer evil with deliberate good.
Psalm 7:15–16: The Pit the Enemy Digs
The enemy digs a pit to trap someone else and ends up in it himself. Psalm 7:15–16 says the trouble and violence a person plans come back on his own head, and the psalmist rests that confidence on God's righteousness.
Jesus Prays Forgiveness at the Skull
Jesus prayed for the forgiveness of the men crucifying him, and he anchored that prayer in their ignorance, not their innocence. Praying for a narcissist takes the same shape: honest about the harm, asking mercy rather than revenge, leaving the accounting with God.